What Is Memorial Day and Why Is It Observed?

A Day of Remembrance, Reflection, and Connection

Memorial Day is a federal holiday in the United States, observed on the last Monday in May. While many people associate it with long weekends, backyard barbecues, and the unofficial start of summer, its origins are deeply rooted in honoring the sacrifice of American military personnel.

Originally called Decoration Day, the holiday began in the years following the Civil War—a conflict that claimed more American lives than any other war in U.S. history. Communities across the country began gathering to place flowers on the graves of fallen soldiers, honoring both Union and Confederate lives lost. Over time, the tradition expanded, and by the early 20th century, it had become a national observance.

In 1971, Memorial Day was declared a federal holiday, with the intention that Americans would use this day to remember the men and women who died in military service. Today, flags are lowered to half-staff, ceremonies are held in cemeteries and war memorials, and a national moment of silence is observed at 3:00 p.m. local time.

But beyond the formalities, Memorial Day is also a time for us, as individuals and communities, to reflect on the values of service, sacrifice, and unity. These values transcend military service and can inspire us to contribute more meaningfully to the communities we live in—whether that’s through kindness, inclusion, or just being a good neighbor.

In a co-living space like ours, this message resonates powerfully. While we may not share the same background, we do share a space—a place where we’re building something together, day by day. Memorial Day reminds us that the strongest communities are rooted in respect, empathy, and shared responsibility.

So while you're enjoying some rest this weekend, maybe take a quiet moment to reflect. Consider those who gave up their tomorrows for our todays—and how we can honor their memory by living more consciously and generously today.